Single life single wife

  It's hard to believe that it's been 8 yrs since I was someone's wife. Crazy to think but now I'm at the place where I'm trying to figure out just what I want.  People who get married straight out of divorce have zero time to think and reflect on what they want from their new life. I on the other hand, have dated, not dated, been happy, been sad and always end up content with my choices. But a day doesn't go by when I'm asked,"do you have a boyfriend?"  9 times out of 10, the answer is no. Trying to figure out how a man fits into my busy schedule of work and kids is that nagging question I have.   So no I don't have a boyfriend and no I don't know exactly what I want, and that's ok!